I’m thankful for…

This may not be the time of year that most people are thankful but tonight, I’m thankful that I have the awesome friends I do & have met some awesome people.  It makes the less awesome idiots I do meet more tolerable.

As I said, I’ve been meeting some new people…most of them pretty awesome…but this 1 guy I met a few days ago *shakes her head* he took the cake.  He keeps insisting he’s a dominant but all he’s concerned with is the sexual side of things, trying to push me into things I’m nowhere near ready for after knowing him for less than a week & saying himself that pleasing my dominant is what matters & if I don’t then I’m just being selfish…even when it makes me disgusted with myself & the world I should still do it because I’m just being difficult & not wanting to listen to someone who’s dominant to me.  I kept telling him if he felt that it wasn’t going to work, but did keep chatting with him just ignored every time the conversation took a sexual turn & turned it some way else.

But what was the last straw was when he told me that if we ever got together, he’d make me…& my son….quit playing WoW.  I mean it’s bad enough he doesn’t listen to anything I say but then wants to take away 1 of the few things that I truly enjoy & can meet people & love doing with my kid & friends?  And is telling me how to raise my kid when he has never even met him & didn’t even bother to ask me what I thought of it?  That was the final straw.  You can try & treat me however you want but you do not try to parent my child without asking.  Especially when you have none so you’ve not had personal experience.  Not that I’m saying if you haven’t had kids you can’t be a parent, but you really shouldn’t tell someone else what to do with a kid you don’t even know & know nothing about either.

And then in WoW I had some super intelligent & kind people (note the sarcasm there) telling me & my son that we were weak & fools & to stop bragging when if we were really good we could do blah blah blah & I just said back in chat “Wow…what supportive people we have in wow” & I bet I got 5 laughs.  And when his comeback was if you want supportive quit WoW & go find some real friends I told him that I brought my real friends to WoW with me so his help honestly wasn’t needed but thanks for the thought.  I got a few laughs from that but you know what…the people who feel the same way won’t argue with the trolls so at least they know it’s not just them.  I know I shouldn’t feed the trolls but sometimes you just gotta let everyone else know that they’re not alone.

Lastly, I want to thank my Former Master for helping me take up for myself & not just accept what I get when it’s all wrong for me.  He helped me to believe in how amazing & awesome I can be, & how so many other people see just what a special person I am even when I can’t see it or believe it.  He has helped me grow & blossom in ways I don’t think even he realizes & I want to thank him for showing me how to be a good woman, a good friend, as well as a good submissive.


This week’s TMI Tuesday

A little late in the day I know but at least I tried. *grins*

Which do you prefer?


1. Which is better to jump in: a leaf pile or a puddle? Leaf pile definitely cause you can easily put the leaves back into a pile & do it again & can’t always do that with puddles.

2. Pictionary or Taboo? Pictionary but mainly because *laughs* that’s the only 1 of the 2 I’ve ever played.

3. Potato chips or pretzels? Hard choice but I’d have to go with Potato chips tho if I could ever find the garlic Pretzel nibs I used to eat I might have to change my thinking there no matter how much I love tater chips lol

4. Gatorade or water? Water definitely.

5. Popcorn or Nachos? Oh wow another hard 1 but I guess I’ll have to say…my popcorn i make with buffalo wing & nacho cheese seasoning combined.

6. Fruit Loops or Captain Crunch?  I’m already fruity & loopy enough so Captain Crunch…as long as there’s crunchberries in it.

7. Cheerios or Grape Nuts? Grape nuts tho I like to mix them with granola.

8. Hummer or Range Rover? Umm…whichever is worth more so I’d have more cash after selling it?
Quiz: What your car says about you. click HERE to take the quiz.

9. Rain or Snow? Why? Snow…cause even if it’s cold as I don’t know what here it’s still prettier.

10. Wrench or screw driver?  Torqued and turned or screwed and fastened together? Wrench…had enough screwdrivers when I used to drink them.

Bonus: If you had to eat one condiment as a food, which condiment would you choose? Why? Chocolate syrup…so yummy even by itself…or peanut butter if it counts LOL

TMI Tuesday – First for the year for me

Hey everyone.  Been a bit busy so haven’t been able to do much.  Good news is I’ve lost 27 pounds now since I started this plan back in October so I’m very happy about that.  Even with the holidays it happened so yays me & thanks for all the support as well!  I’ve also been on World of Warcraft alot with my son.  We’re trying to level 2 characters to 90 & have decided from 87-90 are as long as the 10 levels before that. *laughs*

Finally am able to make a post & just realized it’ll be my first post since I redid the layout at the first of the month so hope everyone likes it as well…& here comes my TMI! (*laughs* Even if it might be kind of lame or tame tonight since I just finished making homemade veggie-beef-turkey soup & am now pooped.)

TMI Tuesday: January 14, 2014

Naughty Fill-ins

Don’t just fill in the blanks, sex it up! Show us just how sexy, kinky, and dirty your minds can be.

1. Right now I’m as I said I’m pooped…tho it’s at least in a good way.
2. Tonight I’d like to get a good night’s sleep in the bed.
3. Karl can do anything he wants to me anytime.
4. The best thing to happen to me in 2014 has been feeling awesome & not dead tired all the time for the first time in years & years .
5. My kid trying my newest recipe & saying he likes it & actually eating another helping to prove it is one of the best feelings in the world.
6. Someone out there really is waiting just for me.

Bonus: Post a photo that really turns you on and tell us why it does.


The reason this turns me on is because right now…just 1 night of good sleep is more desirable than any naughty thing I can think of so *laughs* the thought of a nice comfy bed turns me on more than anything else at the moment.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

And thank you everyone for reading this & hope you have a great day/night!